Childbirth takes so much of the women, yet i am really not sure if the men appreciate it... especially by the way some treats their wives.
( i'll write about this some other time)
Many incentives nowadays to give birth, yet no one realise that it is so easy to do just that.. but to educate a child drains all of the parents.
I ever thought of being a single parent if the society is open enough to accept the child, however, now even if the society is acceptable with it, i wouldn't give it a shot.. as i have seen too many "devils" around... it takes so much to guide and lead a child to the right path.. yet the future is so unpredictable; and i would rather not have another devil on this earth.
Many people told me i should get married and have a kid, cos i would be able to teach them personally.. yet i think it is more than my ability to teach or give them life.. it is a tremendous commitment of life from the beginning of marriage to the end of that person's life.
May be i choose not to complicate my life, may be i choose not to be responsible for another life, may be it is easier to just live my life and answer for my life alone.
i mocked at those who give life sparingly yet withheld to give it a full life, and admire the courageous ones out there who took this ladden seriously, and did a good job.. though some failed.. at least they tried.
i am sure i wouldn't be the only one treading on this narrow path, those who did, be encouraged that it is perfectly alrite not to adhere to social standards, and most of all ...
You will never be the only one ..